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Wednesday, October 13, 2004

It was kind of odd today when I started thinking about the rules we have in the Judeo-Christian faith. I'm sure many have heard about the sin of having pre-marital sex. However, when I was talking to a co-worker, who is going through a seperation with her husband, about the rule of pre-marital sex and how it is a sin. Now, thinking about it, I would assume that it applies to those who have yet to be married. It's common now to wait until you are married.

However, is it a sin to have pre-marital sex after you become seperated, divorced, or widowed? How serious can that sin be? I guess the only analogy I can come up with is that it's like committing a crime and knowing you did it and you are thrown in jail. After your sentence is completed, you are released, but you are again sent to court and jail for the very same crime you committed for the first time because the judge believes you have not served enough time for the crime.

So can anybody come up with better analogy for that?

5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Personally I think religon often places too much guilt on people to do the "right" thing. I think if you are doing something (like waiting to have sex) because you want to, great, but if you are waiting just because someone "told you to" then that's wrong. Be free have sex or don't either is OK!

October 14, 2004 at 8:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

- Margaret

October 14, 2004 at 8:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Free will....do or don't....there's always consequences to it though.

Mr. Big

October 14, 2004 at 8:52 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Where do you see a conflict, irony, or wiggle room? If you believe that pre-marital sex is a sin, it's a sin. Why would the condition of separation, divorce, or becoming widowed change that very clear cut rule? It sounds like maybe you're not being entirely "faithful". Get your sinning butt down to the confessional and say 12 hail Mary's and 45 our father's.

I tend to agree with Margaret. Religion that declares what is right and wrong, while decisive, doesn't help people live their lives very well. In my opinion, a good religion is one that educates you and gives you good ideas and guidelines to live your life by that allow you to make your own decisions. Catholocism doesn't do that - so sorry, your going to HELL. Did you spank the monkey - off to HELL with you. Sex after separation - HELL. Did you discrespect your parents - HELL. HELL HELL HELL HELL. Now don't have pre-marital sex.

October 14, 2004 at 10:34 AM  
Blogger Christopher said...

Well, it's a good thing that I'm not Catholic! I'd be in trouble then! Remember, this wasn't an issue about me....it was a thought that came out of talking to a co-worker, her seperation, and her religious views.

October 14, 2004 at 10:52 AM  

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