Virginity is Overrated!!

I wrote about the marriage seminar that I went to at my church in previous entries. The subject that came up most was about our favorite word, SEX! Yes, sex and marriage, both being talked about in church. In the seminar, sex was one section of it. Basically, what the discussion was having sex in the marriage and how males/females view it....or how men want it so much, but women don't. It's funny to hear the excuses made for why women don't want it is because they are too tired working around the house. If only the husbands were more responsive to the wive's feelings, if they helped out more around the house, then it would let the wives want more and enjoy sex more often! YEAH, RIGHT!!!!
Well, I was talking about it in lunch today, to a couple of co-workers, two were guys (one of them was my supervisor), and two were women. Both guys were saying that that way of thinking with husbands helping out wives would not help out in the bedroom. It's not true!!! Even the women agreed! It means jack shit to women if the guy helps in whether or not he is getting lucky that night!
One guy even told me a theory of the marbles in the jar. Apparently this theory is that in the first year of marriage, you put in a marble into the jar for every time you have sex. Then after that year is up, you take a marble out every time you have sex from that time. He said that the marbles that you put in would never be completely out of the jar throughout your marriage.
Anyway, that brings me back to my point of Virginity being overrated. You often hear growing up, when going to church, to only have sex when you are married...to remain a virgin until that moment comes. Apparently, it's special to be a virgin on your wedding night! Maybe.....but does that mean that sex in the marriage is better. I DON'T THINK SO! What's the point when there is no guarantee that the sex is going last or even be good. Sex is just like any part of the relationship when it comes to being with the significant other. Would you knowingly marry someone that you know you would not be compatible with. Sex is just as important in the relationship as having the same goals and dreams as the other person is. So that is why I say virginity is overrated. Go practice as much as you can before you get married but be responsible about it!